Saturday, May 24, 2008
Well, yeah, I may be the only person who thinks so!
But I really feel that to be in a relationship, fighting with your partner is not a very good idea. It just gives you reasons to spout out all the anger against the person at once.And the results are terrible. You may not even like to know the outcomes.
But in some cases it has resulted in loss of relationships, the relationships which may have been going very smoothly for a long time but has broken all of a sudden because your friend flirted with your boyfriend! No way guys, this no way to behave with your good old buddies.
You know what, whenever you have a fight with your friends or your boyfriends, it may be over, but somewhere down the line you will feel that the other person had done something wrong to you and there are chances that he may repeat it. The 'trust factor' that is the most important component of friendship, weakens. And when the trust weakens you start suspecting them of doing something wrong back again.
Be it your friends, your boyfriend or your parents, to know them better, quarelling with them is not the solution. You first have to talk to them about the issue that is bothering you. It is only then that they realise that you are having a problem regarding the respective subject. You have to give them a chance to speak their side of the story, rather than just keep on bickering about them.
Yes I know, many of you may feel that small fights strengthen your relationships. But the notion is completely wrong. You may always catch the wrong side of the rope and carry on with them. Rather hold on for sometime. Relax.
To know them better talk to them. DO NOT QUARREL!
So when you are over with this write-up, think about it. Do you still feel that fighting bring you closer to each other?If so, write about it.
