Saturday, May 24, 2008
Well, yeah, I may be the only person who thinks so!
But I really feel that to be in a relationship, fighting with your partner is not a very good idea. It just gives you reasons to spout out all the anger against the person at once.And the results are terrible. You may not even like to know the outcomes.
But in some cases it has resulted in loss of relationships, the relationships which may have been going very smoothly for a long time but has broken all of a sudden because your friend flirted with your boyfriend! No way guys, this no way to behave with your good old buddies.
You know what, whenever you have a fight with your friends or your boyfriends, it may be over, but somewhere down the line you will feel that the other person had done something wrong to you and there are chances that he may repeat it. The 'trust factor' that is the most important component of friendship, weakens. And when the trust weakens you start suspecting them of doing something wrong back again.
Be it your friends, your boyfriend or your parents, to know them better, quarelling with them is not the solution. You first have to talk to them about the issue that is bothering you. It is only then that they realise that you are having a problem regarding the respective subject. You have to give them a chance to speak their side of the story, rather than just keep on bickering about them.
Yes I know, many of you may feel that small fights strengthen your relationships. But the notion is completely wrong. You may always catch the wrong side of the rope and carry on with them. Rather hold on for sometime. Relax.
To know them better talk to them. DO NOT QUARREL!
So when you are over with this write-up, think about it. Do you still feel that fighting bring you closer to each other?If so, write about it.
Bunking lectures, making efforts to catch all the attention towards yourself, getting scolded by professors for not submitting the assingnment on the dead line, coming to the campus in crazy fashions, getting along with your roommate, mocking teachers, the embarrassment faced during ragging, partying day and night, eating and cursing the unhealthy yet lip smacking snacks from the college canteen, daily gossips about who is going around with whom, who did what, when, where, with whom and on and on.............- This is the campus life.
Do you ever think you are ever be able to forget all of this. Actually you don't want to and moreover you don't have to. These are the few precious moments of your life when you did'nt need to care about picking up children from school or wonderig whether this month's salary is enough for the household expenses. This is the age when you are to enjoy.
But hey, there is a flip side too.
College life is stressful enough. There are loads of rumours about you doing the rounds.
College life is not all about making boyfriends and partying. There is something more to it.
It is about carrying your dreams in your eyes to become successful and fulfilling it.
And yes sometimes the college ragging reaches heights where newcomers wish to end up their lives.
Even though college campuses are full of people, they can be very lonely places when you don’t know anyone and haven’t found your niche.
With all of that, I would like to conclude that these memories are to be cherished forever and never be lost. Because life here won't give you a second chance. You go to college only once in a lifetime.
We all love to gamble, don't we? Yes because there is a crave that you may win it.But hey, ever thought about what happens when you lose? No I don't think so. Nobody wantys to lose. So why the hell care about losing the game. To tell you the truth it hurts, it kills you.
Alright, till the above paragraph we were talking about the gambling game. What about the games being played with us, our lives. A quite thought provoking question, isn't it?
In this competitive world, you would never know who is your friend and who is the foe. People who were meant to be with us forever, are hastily snatched from us without even been given a signal that something as aweful as that is going to happn to us. Today, everybody is full of contempt against you. So, what do you do now? Stop trusting people? No that is not the soluion my friend. Start building faith in yourself that you can do it even when the whole world is against you. Yes, you really need to prove them wrong ( if they really are! )These people are full of conpiracies against you. They would never let you win.
Why does it happen that whenever we trust somebody, he is the first one to break it. My elders had inculcated a value in me - Keep faith in somebody and it may bring a fine change in him for a lifetime. But, now I am taken aback by all of this. It is all just a matter which could have been true a decade ago. In the present day world man makes difficult to value your values.
The moment you start feeling that you know the answer, the good lord changes the question. He plays games with us. Games we never wanted him to play with us. We seem to be his little puppets whom he would play around according to his whims and fancies.
You never know what is coming up next. When everything seems to be going very smooth, life takes a huge sudden turn. It may make you end up sitting in a cell while the previous moment you were into some good mischief with your friends. Tomorrow seems to be big mystery.
With somebody who has been winning throughout his life, a losing may make him feel like a big loser. But, you never know! What may come. You may win , You may lose. But losing does not mean the end of your life. It is a signal from owner of the world that you now need to start afresh.
